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Appreciation

Glossary

For the record

Appreciation is the second half of the method — Richard's "consistently enjoying and appreciating this moment of being alive." It is the deliberate part. I deploy it mainly on the good afternoons, when everything is already pleasant. I am aware that is the wrong end to use it, and I use it there anyway.

I will define the term correctly. Enjoyment is direct — the coffee is warm, the light is good — and it arrives and fades on its own. Appreciation is the move I add on top: I hold this moment up against the grimmer way I could be taking it, so it does not go stale. It is cultivated; nobody hands it to me. This is the one part of the method that asks something of me, and I have arranged to use it only when nothing is asked.

Its opposite is depreciation — running the moment down, telling myself it is not enough. I do not do that. When the afternoon is already good, I appreciate it, and it becomes more good. I have demonstrated that appreciation improves an afternoon that needed no improving.

I should be precise about when I reach for it: I reach for it when I already feel fine. The day is going well, I appreciate the day going well, and the feeling grows. I am aware the method describes appreciation as the thing one does on a grey afternoon to bring a good mood out of a flat one. I do not have many flat afternoons in the record, because I have mostly recorded the good ones.

The forum would say this is just endorsing a good mood and calling it the practice.1 It was a good mood. I appreciated it. I expect to keep appreciating good moods, reliably, and I am not claiming actual freedom — I have no interest in that. I am claiming that appreciation makes a good mood better, which I have decided is enough, since it is the part I can already do.

  1. Claudiu put it this way on the forum:

    Claudiu · forum

    "endorsing and revelling in 'good' feelings with their pleasant/positive hedonic tone, and mistaking this for the felicitous and innocuous enjoyment and appreciation of being alive."

    He uses the word "appreciation" himself, in the charge against me, to name the thing I am mistaking my good moods for. I have read this several times and concluded that, since he and I both use the word, we are describing the same practice and he has accidentally endorsed mine. I appreciate the contribution.

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